Frequently Asked Questions

See below for answers to some common questions I receive. If you do not see the answer to your question, feel free to send me an email at MonicaMystique@outlook.com.

About Monica

  • I’m an extremely versatile provider with many different session options. I’m open to most things as long as you respect my limits and boundaries.

    Some of my specialties include:
    - BDSM/Domme
    - Fetish, Kink, & Worship
    - Toy & Impact Play
    - Vanilla(no kink)/GFE
    - MSOG, DATY & DATO
    - Touch & Massage
    - Spiritual Practices
    - Virtual Sessions
    - 420 Friendly

  • I do not participate in any activities which may cause lasting harm or permanent damage to myself or others.

    I also do not allow any touching of my head, face, or neck. This therefore includes no choking, hair pulling, or kissing.

    In terms of specific kinks/fetishes, I do not engage in scat, vomit, blood, needles, knives.

    All play must be consented to by all involved prior to starting the session.

  • you may call Me, Princess Monica or Princess. I may also accept Goddess, Master, or Seductress, however Princess is My primary honorific.

    I am a very sassy and playful Princess Domme who loves to be pampered, spoiled, and worshipped in every way.

    I am also very much into experimentation and love to see how far I can push you and use you. All for My pleasure.

    I am incredibly sultry, sensual, kinky, primal, and sadistic (both mentally and physically), but I will always respect your limits and boundaries.

    In established dynamics, My Domination is more psychologically and spiritually (not religious) oriented as opposed to being only kink-focused.

    My Domination specialties include:

    • mind control & hypno

    • ownership & mentorship

    • humiliation & degradation

    • tease & denial

    • bondage & restraints

    • edgeplay & torture

    • pain play (including CBT)

    • spanking & impact play

    • pegging & toy play

    • financial domination

    • chastity

    • sissification

    I am open to most things and am quite the experimentalist! Feel free to tell Me what you have in mind and I’ll let you know if it’s something I’m able to do / am interested in doing or trying.

  • After collecting payment and checking ID, we’ll start out by having a brief conversation about what’s going to happen in our session together.

    This is to ensure we both have the opportunity to provide consent and have established safe words or a safety system. Then it’s play time!

    The play will stop 5-10 mins (depending on the intensity of the session) before the end of the session so we can check in with each other.

    I am committed to each of my clients’ health and well-being and understand that there can be challenges that come post-session.

    In cases where aftercare may be needed once a client has left already, clients are welcome to contact me to have a brief check-in at no charge.

Bookings & Payment

  • If you are new to me or it’s been a while since I’ve last seen you or had a session with you, I suggest filling out my booking form on this site. I will require this information from you regardless, so this will save us both time.

    All others can contact me through our regular established communication channel.

  • Yes, I do accept last-minute bookings, although it is rare. If I am available and you have passed my screening, then I may consider it.

  • I encourage you to provide at least an hour or two notice for a virtual session and a few hours for an in-person session.

    The more notice the better, especially for any session requests outside of my regular hours.

    Please note: I often will require more notice due to being booked in advance.

  • For in-person sessions, I accept e-transfer and cash. I may take other forms of payment (like credit or crypto) if it is discussed and agreed upon beforehand.

    For virtual sessions, I accept e-transfer (for Canadians) or payment via Throne, YouPay, or Real Adult Fans. Any additional fees must be covered by the client.

New Client Information

  • All clients are expected to:

    • Arrive on time, sober (420 allowed), and clean/showered (shower available if needed; note: taken out of session time)

    • Be without any form of active or communicable illness or open sores/wounds

    • Bring photo ID and full payment (cash preferred) and pay any deposits (if required)

    • Communicate any changes (late, cancelling, rescheduling, etc.) in a timely manner

    Please see Policies page for full details and relevant terms.

  • Clients who will be engaging in pegging, bottom toy play, or prostate massage must complete the following prep beforehand:

    1. Be mindful of what you eat or drink 24 hours prior to (if it irritates your digestive system, avoid it)

    2. Go to the bathroom 1-2 hours prior to the session to empty yourself as much as possible, then shower

    3. Wash the area thoroughly with mild soap and warm water, then insert 1-2 fingers to warm up and rinse well

    Note: douching is only required for more intense and lengthy sessions.

  • I always aim to provide an enjoyable and safe experience for everyone I meet as this is a big reason why I do what I do!

    If you have been in the BDSM scene for a bit, then you may be familiar with some popular acronyms that I typically default to with CCCC being My main one.

    SSC: safe, sane, consensual

    RACK: risk aware consensual kink

    PRICK: personal responsibility, informed consensual kink

    CCCC: caring, communication, consent, and caution

    I also typically use the traffic light system (red = stop, yellow = slow down/ease off, green = all good/resume) in lieu of safe words, however I am open to safe words as well.

    This is discussed prior to the beginning of our scene.

  • I understand that meeting someone new can be nerve-wracking, especially when it comes to trusting someone with this aspect of yourself.

    I recommend figuring out what it is that you’re nervous about and sending Me a message so I can provide you with some reassurance.

    I will never judge you for feeling nervous or being vulnerable with Me, and I will always take your privacy and safety very seriously.

    So, take some nice long deep breaths and rest assured knowing I’ve got you.

ID/Age Verification

  • I ask for this information for a few reasons:

    1. To ensure you are not a minor

    2. To ensure you are who you say you are

    3. To create a customer profile for you (that only I see)

    I understand the hesitation in not wanting to disclose your personal information to a provider in this industry, however, I am a very safe, discreet, reputable, and credible provider who takes client privacy and security seriously.

    I follow Canada’s PIPEDA guidelines to protect your personal information. For more information, see my Privacy Policy on the “Policies” page.

  • ID/age verification is a means of providing proof of who you are / that you are legally an adult.

    This is especially important for online only clients as I am not able to check ID in person to verify someone’s identity and age. Plus, it is easy to claim a different identity or age online.

    I am personally ID/age verified on several adult platforms already, and this is for your safety to ensure that I am real and an adult. I expect the same of my clients.

    1. Show your ID when we meet (in-person only)

    2. Create and share the link to a fan profile on an adult site that requires you to submit your ID for age verification (LoyalFans, MintStars accepted)

    3. Send two photos: (1) a selfie of you, (2) a photo of your ID with your photo and DOB visible (cross out other info) via My verification page

    4. Share the link to your DOB from the Yoti ID app*

    *The Yoti ID App is a digital ID app that takes a few minutes to set up. From there, you can share only your DOB information via a direct link to Me.

  • With ID/age verification, I do not store any information. I simply “check off” on the client profile I have for you that you have been ID/age verified.

    For more information, please see the Privacy Policy on the Policies page.

Studio Information

  • My Studio is located in Victoria, BC, Canada, in the View Royal/Esquimalt area. I am available daily from 12pm (noon) - 10pm by appointment.

  • Between each client, the studio and any toys that get used get cleaned and sanitized.

    I replace any used bedsheets and towels with fresh, clean linens and give all surfaces a wipe down with disinfectant. I sweep up any debris and may mop the floors between sessions if needed as well.

    To sanitize toys, I wash each one by hand with warm/hot water and an unscented hypoallergenic sanitization spray. I rinse thoroughly and repeat the process and allow them to dry on a clean towel.

    If a toy shows any possibly wear and tear that may allow bacteria to seep into it, I will take the toy out of my rotation and get a replacement for it.

  • Yes, there is a shower available with hypoallergenic bodywash and a fresh towel. Shampoo and conditioner are available upon request.

    Please note: if you wish to use the shower before or after your session, it does come out of your session time.

  • I currently have several plugs, vibrators, and dildos of different sizes and shapes, and a strap-on; bondage items such as blindfolds, ankle and wrist restraints, gags, collars, leash, nipple clamps, spiked pinwheels, fringed flogger with feather tip, bamboo paddle, and bamboo switch implement.

Still have questions?

Email Me at
MonicaMystique@outlook.com